The One Where Ya Girl Writes A Blog

What I’m listening to: That “bom bom bom” song on Tik Tok

What I’m Grateful for:

1. A laptop that allows me to work from home while I have sick babies (I’ve got my sweet son on my lap fast asleep as I type this today).

2. Friendships of 15+ years and conversations with people I knew as children who grew into awesome adults.

3. I asked Frankie what her favorite thing to do is and she said “loving you.”

4. Calvin is potty training like a champion.

5. It’s summer time in Texas finally after monthssssss of rain.

6. Really challenging experiences that allow me to grow.

Hi, I’m Tamika!

I’m the owner, founder and lead success consultant at the Evolution Collective and I specialize in enhancing individuals mindset by giving them guidance and clarity into who they actually are as a person.


Ok, there is my professional introduction.

In the realest of moments, my name is Tamika and what you see is what you get. I’m really talkative, love to swear, and often times people will state that when they need a real come to Jesus moment from someone, they will come to me. I am an excellent speaker and struggle with writing, so in an effort to expand on skills, I’ve started a blog and am writing a book that is currently being sent out to be published. I will state, however, that this blog is probably going to be a grammar person’s nightmare, because like I said, not good at writing. Give me a stage, with one minutes notice and I can talk for as long as you need me to. Writing my words feels like being cut open Saw style in front of the world, but I will get better at it!

I’m energetic and loving and while most people feel they can get all the information they need from a handshake, I believe you get it from a hug. Over time my story will be sprinkled into this blog space, but know when faced with adversity or a fight, I usually come out on top.

I love music- all music. Remember mixed CDs?! On any of mine you could find country, to gangsta rap, to musicals all back to back. I believe fully that the world did not deserve Prince and there is no dis album quite like Lemonade (Beyonce is the queen and no I will not change my mindset on this ever-ever). I believe music can change any day, moment and feeling and sometimes my Apple Music knows me better than people I’ve been around my whole life.


I believe strongly in community and spreading love as far as the eye can see. I don’t believe that we have just one soul mate (I also don’t believe that role is sexually tied), but that our soul has many other souls that it can call home. As such, my soul lives all over the world in people I’ve met and loved.

Each day for me is different but there are two constants: a song I play over and over again (that changes daily) and my art of practicing gratitude. I’ll include both on every post I do. Living in a space of gratitude is a constant practice for me- my actually deep down inside natural state is negative, but I work every day to be positive! I very rarely let people see the negative side of me, and with practicing gratitude, I very rarely let me see that side of me anymore.

  • I’m an #enneagram 2w3 which means I love to help people and I strive to achieve greatness.